Letter · 4 January 47 BC · Brundisi

Ad Familiares 14.16

Ad Familiares 14.16

Headnote

Cicero to his wife Terentia, written from Brundisium on the day before the Nones of January 47 BC — 4 January, by the Perseus dateline (pr. Non. Ian.). The letter belongs to the same midwinter trough as Fam. 14.17 and the catastrophe-letters to Atticus: Pharsalus lost, Pompey dead, Caesar still in the East, Cicero stranded at Brundisium with no political cover and his domestic life unravelling.

The letter is short and bitter. Volumnia — the actress Volumnia Cytheris, mistress of Mark Antony and a connection on whom Terentia had evidently been relying for some piece of business — failed to do what was owed and did what she did do carelessly. But that is the lesser grievance: “there are other matters that concern us more and that we grieve over more.” These wear Cicero down, he says, to exactly the state those men wanted who pushed him out of his own resolve — the friends, beginning with Pompey, who had urged him into the Republican camp at Pharsalus and so into the ruin he is now sitting in. The closing instruction is one terse line: cura ut valeas, “take care of your health.”

If you are well, it is well; I am well. Although our times are such that I have nothing either to expect by way of letters from you or to write to you myself, still — somehow or other — I both look out for letters from you and write to you whenever I have someone to carry them. Volumnia ought to have been more dutiful toward you than she was, and what she did do she might have done with more care and more circumspection. But there are other matters that concern us more and that we grieve over more, and that wear me down to the very state which those men wanted who pushed me away from my own resolve. Take care of your health. The day before the Nones of January.
S. v. b. e. v. etsi eius modi tempora nostra sunt ut nihil habeam quod aut a te litterarum exspectem aut ipse ad te scribam, tamen nescio quo modo et ipse vestras litteras exspecto et scribo ad vos, cum habeo qui ferat. Volumnia debuit in ’ te officiosior esse quam fuit, et id ipsum quod fecit potuit diligentius facere et cautius. quamquam alia sunt quae magis curemus magisque doleamus quae me ita conficiunt, ut ii voluerunt qui me de mea sententia detruserunt. cura ut valeas. Pr. non. Ian.

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